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I could use an artist date RIGHT NOW!

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Do it! Turns out that Indianapolis is a great place for an artist date! :)

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Right?!

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I am so overdue for an artist date! Thanks for the reminder.

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It was a reminder to me too! Do it!

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Loved this post!

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Thanks, Christine! xo

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Love this. Sounds like a wonderful day. Sometimes it is hard to work up the energy but rarely ever regrettable.

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Yes, it's easy NOT to. In The Artist's Way, half of the section on artist dates is addressing the excuses we make to not do it. But it's really worth it!

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I love the value of even humble artist dates, the library, walking around a local lake, etc. Love the illustrated essay — a beautiful exposition on this topic. My favorite part though is the car ride home. That’s perfect — and perfectly captured.

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Yes, Cameron is clear that it can be something small--and free. This actually makes me realize that my regular exercise (running along the river) kind of doubles as an artist date! I'm alone and listening to artist podcasts! Maybe I do these dates more than I thought! Also, yes, I was a chatterbox in the car. I'm sure the afternoon latte (before I spilled it) contributed. 😂

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Good morning, Kelcey! :)

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(It is still morning, isn't it?)

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Good morning to you, Liz! ❤️

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Sounds like you had a great day! I've not done this for years, thanks so much for reminding me how inspiring it can be!🥰

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Honestly, I hadn't either! It was a great reminder for me too!

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Love this Kelsey and the way you illustrate it! Now I want you to disseminate the whole of The Artist’s Way! (I always cheat on my morning pages—as long as there’s a sentence written when I’m busy I feel ok!) Also, can an exception to the artist date be a conversation between two artists date (in Indianapolis)?

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Thanks, Deborah! My morning pages have evolved over time into short and illegible entries later in the day! So, yes, I think we can make our own rules when it comes to artist dates as long as it feeds the creative soul! 🥰✨❤️

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I had my Artist’s date on Saturday in my garden—I made a giant cone-shaped twig structure for fun and drank iced coffee and listened to music. ✨ also thanks for the Sheila Heti reminder! Been waiting for this one!

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Well that sounds like a perfect artist date! I've been enjoying the Heti book! Yesterday I read the "A" chapter and today I read the "B" chapter. It's poetic and recursive and meditative. Perfect for me right now. ❤️

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I haven’t even read it yet but the concept alone has inspired me to change up my own sentences, most of which start with a big fat “I” 😂

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😂😂😂

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Wonderful! I got a gooey feeling just thinking about you spending the day by yourself on an artist's date. I'm going to Montreal for a week in June where I plan to have an artist's WEEK!

I read The Artist's Way in the 90's when I was a few years out of art school and had a small child. I was fighting so much self-doubt, not to mention various other garden-variety "blocks", that it was an uphill battle to nurture my inner artist at that point. But much of it has stuck with me. I have a journaling workshop coming up, and you better believe that Morning Pages get a special mention.

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An artist's WEEK?!?! Glorious!

I read it in in the 90s as a new mother too! But I wasn't out of art school, I was desperate to figure out how to get INTO art/writing school after a life in sports! It changed my whole way of thinking.

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Well, I'll be visiting a friend in Montreal as well. But I'm going alone, staying in an Airbnb alone, and plan to do a lot of walking around and going to galleries and WHATEVER THE HELL ELSE I FEEL LIKE! I'm in dire need of a vacay 😬 (in case that wasn't obvious).

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What a wonderful post! I enjoyed it very much and will have to plan my own Artist's Date!

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Thank you, Marilyn! Highly recommended!

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First time reading and working thru the artists way. What a beautiful book.

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Isn't it profound? Sometimes it shows its (1992) age, but the insights are transformative.

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hahaha that is so cute! Love your story!

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Thank you! It was a fun day! :)

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Artist dates are the best! I love having them and from time to time I also invite a friend 😉

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Agreed! Even though bringing a friend is “against the rules,” I think it can be a great idea!

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Ohh I didn’t know! Well maybe then its not an artist date, but it definitely helps with the stress of painting when there is many people around.

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Yes, The Artist’s Way author Julia Cameron is pretty insistent about doing them solo, but please know that I was joking about “the rules”! This is hardly the kind of thing to fuss over rules! Art with friends is awesome!!

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I love this idea. I need to remember to document my Artist Dates as a reminder. I generally don't like to go places by myself, but I don't have a problem with doing Artist Dates alone.

Love your artwork.

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Thanks, Victoria! Going places alone definitely changes the experience—I think that’s part of the power of it!

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A couple years ago I did do some travel by myself and I actually really enjoyed it. It helped me realize I can do things on my own and enjoy them. I met some really nice people at a concert I attended and a musical.

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I went to a couple of concerts by myself too, and it was so different! I didn’t meet anyone but it was a cool experience!

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I love this idea and this post and your blog SO MUCH. I was feeling in a rut and came across this gorgeousness and was INSPireD. This coming Sunday, I am sharing my first try at doing a post in graphic visuals. I am sure there will be a million things I can improve upon, but I have enjoyed it so very much. THANK YOU!

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I’m so glad to hear it, Jane! Thank you!

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